Letters to A Grieving Mama Dear Reader, Maybe this is your first gift-buying season without them. Maybe it's your tenth. Either way, you're facing an impossible reality: your love for your child is still active, but all the old forms for expressing it are gone. The anguish of having love with nowhere to put it is one of the most difficult aspects of grief. The Questions That Haunt You Let me name the impossible decisions you're facing. Do you buy something for your child? Your body remembers...