An email-guided journey to reconnect with your child's spirit through visitation dreams
DREAM PATHWAY: THE 11-DAY SACRED DREAM REUNION INVITATION
Learn How to Reunite with Your Beloved Child in Your Dreams Through This Powerful 11-Day Sacred Journey
"I met you in my dreams again."
"We were lying in an open pioneer wagon filled with pillows and blankets. You had your head on my chest, and I had my arm around you—exactly how we used to snuggle.
It was nighttime and we could see the stars. I could smell your hair.
After a while of just lying there, I asked, 'Where have you been?'
'I am right here,' you answered.
When I asked what you had been doing, you said, 'My only job is to love and support'—the exact words I had used so many times in my own role as your mom."
— Ashlie, mother to Z (Visitation dream on Day 8 of the 11-Day Invitation)
Dear Mama,
Your Child Is Still With You
The bond between a mother and child doesn't end with death—it transforms.
If your heart aches for one more conversation, one more hug, one more moment of connection with your child, you're not alone. And you're not powerless.
Dreams provide sacred meeting places where your souls can reunite, offering comfort, healing, and ongoing connection that transforms your grief into a different kind of love.
The 11-Day Sacred Dream Reunion Invitation guides you step-by-step through proven practices that create optimal conditions for dream visits with your child.
This Journey Is For You If:
✓ You feel stuck in your grief and don't know how to move on or exist in a world without your child
✓ You miss your child like crazy and long to feel the warmth of their hug one more time
✓ You are tormented by guilt and regret because you could not save them or protect them
✓ You want to have one more conversation with them and get reassurance that they are ok
✓ You have words that were left unsaid like: I am sorry, I love you, I am proud of you, I miss you...
✓ You feel like your life has become a meaningless void of never ending sadness and exhaustion and you sometimes feel, "what's the point anymore?"
✓ You are wondering how you are supposed to survive another 20+ years with this hole in your heart
AND
✓ You believe (or want to believe) that your relationship continues beyond death
✓ You intuitively sense that your maternal role doesn't end with physical death
✓ You're willing to dedicate 45-60 minutes daily for 11 days
✓ You're ready to learn practices that open pathways for spiritual communion
✓ You want to be able to create new memories with them, give them life updates, hear about how they are doing and receive their emotional support and guidance in your life...
✓ You're seeking healing that honors continuing bonds rather than "letting go"
✓ You're ready to transform your grief into a gateway for continuing connection
One Visitation Dream with Your Child Can Change Your Life.
It can release frozen energy and give you the courage you need to work through your grief and reconcile any feelings of depression and apathy.
“Ning you have really helped me connect with Levi in my dreams and feel his presence and wake up like I’d actually visited him. I guess because I did! It has helped my broken heart so very much I hope more moms find you.
This holiday feels different since day of the dead I feel like my body finally actually recognizes that he is physically gone and I feel very connected to him in spirit. Much of that I owe to you!
You are #awesomelikelevi - Karen, mother to Levi ( forever 16)
Whether you've already experienced signs of your child's presence or are just beginning to hope that connection remains possible, this gentle approach honors exactly where you are while providing practical tools for deepening your eternal bond.
No special spiritual background is required—just an open heart and the courage to trust that the profound love between mother and child transcends all physical limitations.
The Sacred Reality of Visitation Dreams
Visitation dreams aren't just your mind processing grief—they're genuine spiritual encounters where your child's spirit visits you during sleep. These sacred meetings feel completely different from ordinary dreams because they are actual reunions, not just emotional processing.
You'll recognize a true visitation dream because it carries these unmistakable qualities:
- Feels hyper-real, more vivid than ordinary dreams or even waking life
- Your child appears healthy, whole, and radiantly at peace
- Communication flows directly and meaningfully between your souls
- You experience profound comfort and healing that lingers for days
- The memory remains crystal clear, sometimes for years afterward
Your maternal heart will know when your child has truly visited. Trust that recognition just as you always knew their presence even before they could speak.
"She showed me her joy, I could see how happy she was and then she told me she was more worried about me because of all my sadness and sorrow. And then she did one thing more . . . she let me feel her joy . . . and I can't even describe it because there are no words to describe the joy. All I can tell you is that I got up that morning. It's probably the only time I really legitimately smiled. My heart legitimately smiled from that. . . . Yes I was overcome with joy" - Laura (Story from Jennifer's Shorter's PHD research on Visitation Dreams"
How the 11-Day Invitation will Work
The 11-Day Dream Reunions journey is a unique invitation to learn how to use the potent healing power of visitation dreams to reconnect with your child and create a new type of relationship that will endure for the rest of your life.
After you sign up, you’ll receive a welcome email and starting the following day, you will get a new daily email from me for 11 days.
Daily Email Guidance (11 Days)
Each morning for 11 days, you'll receive a comprehensive email with:
- Detailed teaching about that day's practice
- Step-by-step instructions for implementation
- Clear action items and practice guidelines
- Encouragement and support for your path
- Exactly what to do and when to do it
Days 1-5: Foundation Building
- Day 1: Intention + Mantra
- Day 2: Write your sacred invitation letter + Invocation
- Day 3: Learn your evening ritual (4 parts)
- Day 4: Master your morning ritual (3 parts)
- Day 5: Create a remembrance portal + attunement space
Days 6-11: Full Practice Integration
- Day 6: Soul Attunement Ritual - Picture Portal Practice - Using your child's picture as a gateway for connection
- Day 7: Soul Attunement Ritual - P.S. I Love You - Opening heart-to-heart communication
- Day 8: Soul Attunement Ritual - HeART Connections -Creating sacred vessels through art
- Day 9: Soul Attunement Ritual - You Are a Part of Me - Embodying your child's presence
- Day 10: Soul Attunement Ritual - Threads of Connection - Discovering soul-to-soul memories
- Day 11: Dream Scripting for Sacred Reunion + Grace Invocation (advanced practice)
Time Investment: Each daily invitation will take you about 45 - 75 minutes a day and build on the last one to help you master the different dreaming skills. Overall, the total time commitment will be about an hour a day (including your bedtime ritual and morning ritual for dream recall).
What's Included the 11-Day Invitation will Work
Daily Email Guidance (11 Days)
The Complete DREAM Pathway PDF Guide
A comprehensive 30+ page reference guide delivered on Day 12, including:
- Complete instructions for all practices
- Signs of visitation dreams checklist
- Troubleshooting common challenges
- Guidance for continuing practice after Day 11
- Resources for your sacred journey
Guided Meditation Library
Three specially recorded meditations to support your practice:
- Picture Portal Practice Meditation (10 min) - Soul attunement with your child's photo
- Visitation Dream Bedtime Meditation (15 min) - Nightly preparation for dream visits
- Grace Invocation Meditation (10-15 min) - Advanced practice for Day 11
Bonus Resources
- Introduction to Visitation Dreams Guide (20+ pages)
- Sacred Readiness Scorecard (assess your current preparation)
- Dream Recall 101 + Template
Get Inspired!
What a bereaved mom who have experienced the 11-day Dream Reunions Invitation and other bereaved people have to say about my the invitation and my work
The Simple Truth About Visitation Dreams
Over the last 13 years, I have traveled the world—from the shamanic ceremonies of Peru to the Buddhist meditation centers of Thailand, from transformative breathwork in Poland to reconnecting with my African roots and ancestral wisdom in Cameroon as well as my Christian/Catholic upbringing—exploring consciousness, spirituality, death, and what lies beyond.
My spiritual journey began long before formal study, but it was during my Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology at Columbia University that everything solidified and grounded when I met my root spiritual teacher.
Since then, I've studied dreams from both modern Jungian analytical perspectives and Western sleep science and dream research. I've trained with spiritual teachers across traditions. I've sat in Buddhist meditation retreats. I've participated in African rituals for death and grief. I've volunteered in hospice, sitting with the dying and their families in those sacred threshold moments.
I've spent thousands of hours and $$$$ in courses and training programs—bridging ancient spiritual wisdom with contemporary dream science—to understand what happens after death and how we can maintain connection with those we've lost.
In the last 8+ years, I've used everything I've learned to reconnect with my mother after her death in 2018 and continue our relationship through dreams.
While I've learned so much across all these traditions and practices, the biggest thing I've discovered is this:
There is no secret to having a dream visit with your child.
Mothers have spontaneous visitation dreams all the time—you might have even had one. But there IS a framework that helps you create optimal conditions for these sacred encounters, so you don't have to wait helplessly but can actively invite your child when you need to hold them, tell them something, or feel their presence the way you used to call them or visit them.
The DREAM Pathway Framework
Through years of cross-cultural spiritual practice, academic study in psychology and dream research, deep personal experience, and working with many grieving mothers and other bereaved people, I've distilled everything into five essential elements and practices:
D - DEDICATION: Your mindset (sacred invitation)
R - RECEPTIVITY: Emotional stability (bedtime ritual)
E - EXPECTANCY: Sacred longing (mantra practice)
A - ATTENTION: Dream recall (morning ritual)
M - MAINTENANCE: Daily connection + spiritual attunement practices
When practiced together, these elements create reliable pathways for spiritual communion with your child.
Are You Ready for a Visitation Dream?
This sacred work requires emotional readiness, time, and commitment. Before enrolling, it's important to assess whether now is the right time for you to begin this journey.
Take the Sacred Readiness Scorecard to discover where you are across the five essential elements and receive personalized guidance for your unique path.
The scorecard will help you understand:
- Whether you're in an optimal emotional window for this work (typically 0-3 months and 9+ months after loss)
- Your current dream recall capacity
- Areas where you might need additional support first
- If now is the right time to begin, or if waiting would better serve your healing
Important to know: Once you enroll, the email journey begins the next morning and continues for 11 consecutive days. This work is most effective when you're truly ready to commit to daily practice.
If your scorecard results suggest you might benefit from additional preparation—such as improving dream recall or allowing more time for early grief—I encourage you to honor that guidance. Email me directly if you have questions about your readiness or need support deciding whether now is the right time.
Some mothers need to begin with my Dream Recall 101 Mini-Course to build foundational dream memory skills before starting the invitation journey.
Others need more time to honor their child's transition and their own early grief process. There's no rush—your child will be ready to connect when you are.
Why 11 Days?
The 11-day structure is both spiritually significant and practically transformative.
Sacred connection takes time, presence, and devotion—and you and your child deserve that depth of commitment. This isn't a spiritual quick fix but a sacred reorientation of your inner world that creates lasting transformation.
The Sacred Number 11
In numerology and spiritual traditions worldwide, 11 is a master number—a portal between dimensions, a gateway to higher consciousness.
The number 11 represents:
- Divine connection between physical and spiritual realms
- Spiritual awakening and illumination
- Intuition and insight beyond ordinary perception
- The threshold between who you were and who you're becoming
The Practical Power
Days 1-5: Foundation Building - The first 5 days establish your foundation through learning the DREAM practices, preparing your heart and spirit to become receptive, and creating the optimal conditions for connection. These are days of sacred opening where you build the spiritual infrastructure needed for reunion.
Days 6-11: Integration - The final 6 days focus on integration, weaving everything you've learned into daily life while showing up consistently to strengthen the energetic bridge between you and your child. You practice all elements together daily, creating powerful spiritual momentum. By Day 11, cumulative energy often manifests as breakthrough experiences right at the completion of the journey.
11 days creates transformation without overwhelming a grieving heart. It's the optimal timeframe for:
- Building new neural pathways and habits
- Creating spiritual momentum
- Maintaining commitment (you can see the finish line)
- Aligning with natural consciousness cycles
Dream work is cumulative. Just like physical relationships, repeated loving gestures build trust.
In the spiritual realm, consistent practice creates clearer dreams, sharper inner senses, and more tangible connection with your child's continuing presence.
Many spiritual traditions use 11-day cycles for intensive practice, recognizing this timeframe creates profound shifts in awareness and connection.
Why Only $11.11
You might wonder why this comprehensive program—with daily guidance, meditations, PDF resources, and ongoing support—costs only $11.11.
The answer is simple: This work is my calling.
After my own mother died in 2018, I discovered the transformative power of dream connection. It saved me from drowning in grief. It gave me ongoing relationship with her spirit. It changed everything.
I believe every grieving mother deserves access to these practices, regardless of financial circumstances. Grief is already expensive—emotionally, physically, spiritually. I won't add financial burden to your pain.
The price of $11.11 honors:
- The sacred number 11 and its spiritual significance
- The 11-day journey you're undertaking
- The master number's energy of spiritual awakening
- My commitment to making this accessible to all mothers
This is an invitation, not a transaction. An offering, not a profit center.
Due to the nature of the digital resources included in this program—including guided meditations, the comprehensive PDF guide, and the complete 11-day email series—all sales are final. The depth of these materials makes this investment non-refundable.
If even $11.11 feels like too much right now, please email me. I will never let money be the barrier between a mother and reunion with her child.
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What You Can Expect
Transparency: I cannot promise you a visitation dream within these 11 days. Connection unfolds according to divine timing that honors both your healing journey and your child's spiritual path. Some mothers experience visitation dreams within the first few nights. Others find their spiritual channels opening gradually over weeks or months. Both timelines are normal and valid.
However, most mothers notice immediate benefits even before clear visitation dreams occur:
- Improved sleep quality
- Increased sense of your child's presence throughout the day
- Greater emotional peace and stability
- Meaningful synchronicities and signs
- A shift from helpless grief to active connection
By the end of these 11 days, you will have:
- A Complete Practice System - Morning and evening rituals that create optimal conditions for dream connection, restorative sleep, and spiritual communion with your child.
- Soul Attunement Skills - Practices like the Picture Portal, P.S. I Love You letters, and Threads of Connection that help you recognize your child's unique frequency, trust your maternal intuition about spiritual experiences and maintain active relationship across dimensions.
- Essential Dream Skills: How to prepare your consciousness for dream visits, techniques for remembering dreams before they fade, ways to recognize your child's unique communication style
- The Ability to Invite Connection - Dream scripting and incubation techniques that allow you to actively reach out to your child rather than waiting helplessly for random encounters.
- A Framework for Continuing Bond - Clear, actionable practices for maintaining connection long-term. You don't have to "move on" or "let go"—you're learning to love your child in their transformed state and nurture relationship that spans the rest of your life.
- Rekindled Hope - The profound shift from passive grief to active connection, from feeling your child is gone to knowing they're still with you, just differently.
This isn't magic—it's spiritual practice. It requires dedication, consistency, and trust. But thousands of mothers across cultures and time have walked this path before you and discovered that the bond between mother and child truly transcends death.
With consistent practice, many mothers develop an ongoing relationship where they can reach out to their child when they miss them extra, want to share an important milestone, need their guidance, or simply want to feel their presence and know they're okay.
That's the dream—and it's possible for you too.
A Message for moms Who Are Ready
This journey requires genuine commitment and daily practice. You'll need approximately 45-60 minutes each day spread across morning dream work, evening rituals, and connection practices throughout your day.
This comprehensive approach works for mothers who are serious about creating authentic connection with their children and willing to show up consistently for their own healing. If you're looking for a quick solution or aren't ready to dedicate time and energy to this sacred work, this may not be the right fit for your current journey.
However, if you're ready to honor your eternal bond through devoted practice and open yourself to the profound healing that becomes possible through dream reunion, everything you need is included in this complete package.
If you put in the effort, this invitation will take you through the entire spectrum of sacred dream reunions – from barely recalling a dream to being able schedule consistent dream dates with your child as well as process your grief in a way that is life-affirming.
And you’ll experience profound healing in the process.
"For the first time since my son died, I feel that I'm not alone: something greater than me, within me, is ready to support me at every moment if I will only allow it to do so. I think it's given me more compassion for myself, and a desire to show up as I really am, not as other people want or need me to be."
- Kathleen, mother to Fergus (forever 34)
Visitation Dream Stories
Here are some more visitation dream stories people have shared with me.
(Binge and be inspired!)
About Ning
Spiritual Healer & Dream + Grief Guide
Ning is a published poet, grief guide, spiritual healer and dream yogi specializing in helping bereaved mothers continue and evolve their relationships with their children through the healing power of dreams, rituals, and spiritual practices.
Drawing from ancient wisdom traditions, modern dream science, and deep understanding of the sacred wound that maternal grief creates, this work has guided many mothers in discovering that their relationships with their children continue beyond death and physical separation.
With extensive training in Tibetan/spiritual dream yoga, Western sleep science, spiritual healing, and shamanic practices, plus a Masters in Spiritual Psychology from Columbia University, my approach recognizes that the deepest healing happens not through "moving on" but through learning to love in new ways that span dimensions.
To learn more about Ning, read her story on multidimensionalmama.com
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What if I'm not good at remembering dreams?
Dream recall is a learnable skill that improves dramatically with practice. The morning ritual teaches specific techniques that help you capture dreams before they fade. Most mothers notice significant improvement within just 3-5 days. Dream Recall 101
Q: Do I need to have specific spiritual or religious beliefs?
No. These practices honor whatever spiritual understanding feels true to you. You can adapt the language and invocations to match your personal beliefs. What matters is your love for your child and your openness to connection.
Q: What if I don't have an hour every day?
The practices are designed to fit into real life. Morning and evening rituals can be shortened if needed. At minimum, even 20-30 minutes daily maintains the foundation. Consistency matters more than duration.
Q: Will this keep me stuck in grief?
No. Research on continuing bonds shows that maintaining connection with deceased loved ones supports healthy grief integration. You're not avoiding acceptance—you're accepting that death transforms relationship rather than ending it. You move forward with your child rather than trying to leave them behind.
Q: What if I complete 11 days and don't have a visitation dream?
Connection unfolds according to divine timing. Some mothers experience dreams during the 11 days, others weeks or months later. The practices create optimal conditions and teach skills you'll use for life. Even without immediate dreams, most mothers report feeling more connected, experiencing meaningful signs, and finding greater peace.
Q: Can I do this for a child who died many years ago?
Absolutely. Time doesn't matter in the spiritual realm. Mothers report visitation dreams with children who died decades ago. It's never too late to begin this work.
Q: What if my child died as an infant or was stillborn?
Your child's consciousness exists regardless of how long they lived in physical form. Mothers of infants and stillborn babies report visitation dreams where their children appear at various ages, showing both who they were and who they would have become.
Q: Is this program only for mothers who've lost children?
While the language is mother-specific, the practices work for any family members (fathers, grandparents, adoptive parents, siblings etc.). The bond is what matters, not the technical title.
Q: What happens after Day 11?
You'll have a complete practice system you can maintain as long as it serves you. Many mothers continue daily or weekly practice indefinitely. The PDF guide includes recommendations for ongoing practice schedules. You're also welcome to repeat the full 11-day journey whenever you feel called.
Q: Do you offer refunds?
Because you receive access to comprehensive digital resources—including guided meditations, PDF guides, and the complete 11-day email series—all sales are final and non-refundable.
However, this work is priced at only $11.11 specifically so cost is never a barrier to healing. If even this amount creates financial hardship, please reach out to me directly. Your healing matters more than money.
Your Sacred Invitation Begins Now
Your child is still with you. The love between you is eternal, unchanged by death.
These 11 days will teach you how to perceive more clearly what has always been true: your bond is unbreakable, your relationship continues, and dreams provide sacred bridges for ongoing communion.
For just $11.11—the price of lunch—you receive:
- 11 days of expert guidance
- Complete practice framework
- Meditation library
- Comprehensive PDF guide
- Ongoing support
This is your invitation to active relationship rather than passive grief. To hope rather than helplessness. To connection rather than just memories.
Your child is waiting. The bridge is ready to be built.
Will you take the first step?
BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY
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